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The Opposite Sex

Suzanne Gabriel

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The Opposite Sex

As your teen goes through the myriad of hormonal changes that accompany puberty, they can easily be filled with insecurities as they start to notice the opposite sex.  This insecurity can lead to a variety of social avoidances and behaviors that may be overwhelming for many parents to try and deal with on their own. It is important for your teen to be secure in social settings with the opposite sex.  When your child is confident in these settings, they may make better life and relationship choices. To help point things in that direction, we offer online therapy and counseling here at Mentaline.com that can help teens learn how to have a healthy and positive relationship.

What Your Teen is Feeling

Relationships with the opposite sex are very confusing for teens.  Their bodies are telling them that they are adults, but their minds are still not yet mature enough to be considered an adult or to be able to cope with adult consequences.  These feelings of confusion can lead to poor relationship decisions like finding themselves in comfortable situations, inadvertently putting themselves in dangerous situations, or having sex too early.  With the consequences of unsafe sex being so serious in this day and age with the rise of teen pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, this can be a very serious concern. It is very easy for a teenager to listen to their body instead of their feelings, because they are not yet sure if they can trust their emotional instincts or not.  Peer pressure is also a very important factor in teenage sexual decisions.  Chances are, if your child’s friends are dating or having sex, they are more prone to feel pressured to do the same.

How You Can Help Your Teen

The most important tool a parent can have is open communication.  Encouraging your child to speak their minds will increase their abilities to express them to the opposite sex.  Do not shy away from your teen if they ask you about sex.  Give them all the facts to help them make the decision that is right for them regardless of outside influences and to make certain that they are prepared for their choices.  You shouldn’t overly restrict your child in their relations with the opposite sex as this can lead to feelings of rebellion. Another option if you are feeling overwhelmed is getting help.

What We Can Do

Here at Mentaline.com, you can find therapists who can provide you and your teen with tools to help them through this difficult transition from child to adult. These online counselors are trained to deal with adults and children to better serve your needs. 

Definition of The Opposite Sex

Sexual insecurity in teens can be described as having confusing feelings about physical attraction to members of the opposite sex and lack of emotional readiness to deal with that attraction.

Symptoms of / Reasons for The Opposite Sex

  • Moodiness
  • Insecurity
  • Rebellious behavior
  • Curiosity about sex

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Sheena Crossan
Sheena Crossan

Sheena Crossan

Aberdeen, Scotland | Age: 42
Counsellor/Therapist , Psychologist , Coach
About me

I specialise in supporting people while they understand the difficulties they have. I work with individuals, Young People and Couples. Building communication and confidence skills is a large part of my work too.

Specialties
  • - Trauma
    • » Symptoms
    • Inability to talk
    • Blackout - memory loss
    • Acting automatically
    • Sleeplessness
    • Irritability
    • Anger
    • Limiting of life choices
    • Hopelessness

    » Definition Trauma is damage to a person's psyche (soul, mind) as a result of a traumatic event. There are various causes of trauma, but both therapy and counseling are recommended for treatment of all trauma related problems.
  • - Abuse
    • » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
    • One person completely controlling another
    • Unexplained marks or bruises on the body
    • Repeated injuries that cannot be explained
    • Limping, broken bones, or bruising

    » Definition Abuse is the mistreatment or harm (physical or mental) done to another person over a period of time. Therapy can help a person learn to deal with all the issues that come with long term abuse.
  • - Dissociative Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Memory problems
    • Loss of reality
    • Loss of identity
    • Loss of sensitivity to pain
    • Paralysis

    » Definition Dissociative disorders are caused by psychological reasons. They result in various problems, including loss of memory, loss of movement, and a general breakdown of reality. Both counseling and therapy can help during treatment for any of the many dissociative disorders.
  • - Relationship Counselling
    • » Symptoms
    • Better relationship
    • Guided communication
    • Neutral person to mediate

    » Definition Relationship counseling is used to help a couple learn to deal with many relationship problems that may arise during a long term relationship. While the reasons couples decide to get relationship counseling may differ, when taken seriously, it can help everyone involved.
  • - Divorce / Break-up
    • » Symptoms
    • Depression
    • Anger
    • Exhaustion
    • Guilt

    » Definition A divorce or break-up happens when two people decide to call it quits and end a relationship due to their differences. Learning to deal with the emotional pain of a divorce - especially if there are children involved - can be made easier with the help of the proper therapy and coaching.
  • - Teenage Issues
    • » Symptoms
    • Intense feelings of guilt, grief, or even relief
    • The desire to help and feeling ill-equipped to do so
    • An overwhelming desire to remove yourself from the friendship
    • Feeling isolated or misunderstood

    » Definition Teenage issues are troubles or difficulties that may arise in an adolescents life when living in the modern world. Therapy and counseling are both helpful when dealing with a wide range of teenage issues.
Prices
Couples counselling 60 min
(60 min.)		 45 GBP
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Carla Thompson
Carla Thompson

Carla Thompson

Rugeley | Age: 72
Psychotherapist , Hypnotherapist , Counsellor/Therapist , Coach
About me

I am a BACP accredited, integrative psychotherapist & counsellor, working with individuals, couples, families & young adults. I offer supervision to individuals, groups, school counsellors & trainees.

Specialties
  • - Stress
    • » Symptoms
    • Sleep disturbances
    • Muscle tension
    • Headaches
    • Stomach trouble
    • Fatigue
    • Nervousness
    • Anxiety
    • Overeating
    • Loss of energy and enthusiasm
    • Mood changes

    » Definition Stress is an emotional strain on the mind that is caused by both physical and emotional problems in life. While everyone deals with stress in slightly different ways, treatment with psychotherapy is recommended.
  • - Grief or Loss
    • » Symptoms
    • Guilt
    • Sadness
    • Shock / Disbelief
    • Anger
    • Fear
    • Fatigue
    • Nausea,
    • Weight fluctuation

    » Definition Grief and loss are two powerful human emotions that cause intense sorrow when a person dies. Psychotherapy can help with all the emotional and physical symptoms that sometimes accompany loss and grief.
  • - Cognitive Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Rapid changes in mental states
    • Poor short term memory
    • Disorganized thinking
    • Mental problems - language, memory, perception
    • Inability to recognize language
    • Learning difficulties
    • Memory and recall problems
    • Trouble with critical thinking
    • Reliance on notes and calendars

    » Definition Cognitive disorders cause a significant impairment of cognition, memory or both, either for short or long periods of time depending on the exact type of cognitive disorder. Symptoms will vary, but they will center around cognitive and memory impairments and everything associated with them. Therapy and counseling are recommended for the treatment of cognitive disorders.
  • - Anxiety Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Panic attacks
    • Detached feelings
    • Feelings that the world is unreal
    • Trembling or twitching

    » Definition Anxiety disorders are mental illnesses that affect a person's anxiety levels, leaving them unable to function in society. Psychotherapy is very useful in treatment for anxiety disorders.
  • - Anger Management
    • » Symptoms
    • An excess of anger that can lash out at any time
    • Often not understanding why you are angry about something
    • Being unable to focus your anger to appropriate parties

    » Definition Anger management is the process of controlling one’s anger through therapeutic techniques and exercises.
  • - Depression
    • » Symptoms
    • Concentration problems
    • Bad judgment or trouble making decisions
    • Fatigue and a general decrease of energy
    • Feelings of guilt and/or worthlessness
    • Extreme pessimism
    • Insomnia
    • Excessive sleeping
    • Irritability
    • Loss of interest in sex
    • Loss of interest in life
    • Eating problems
    • Physical pains
    • Suicidal thoughts
    • Suicide attempts

    » Definition Depression is defined as a mental state that causes extreme sadness, pessimism, and a loss of interest in life. Symptoms of depression include sleep problems, uncontrollable crying, loss of interest in life, as well as other physical and mental signs. Counseling and therapy are two recommended ways to get help with depression. While depression is a normal human state of mind, when it lasts for a long time or is very intense, it may be a sign of bigger problems.
Prices
Counselling Session
(60 min.)		 45 GBP
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Megan Thompson
Megan Thompson

Megan Thompson

Bradford-on-Avon
Coach
About me

Professional Coach for The Performance Solution enabling great change in young professionals and those in the first 100 days of a new role.
I also work extensively with young adults, school leavers and teenagers.

Specialties
  • - Teenage Issues
    • » Symptoms
    • Intense feelings of guilt, grief, or even relief
    • The desire to help and feeling ill-equipped to do so
    • An overwhelming desire to remove yourself from the friendship
    • Feeling isolated or misunderstood

    » Definition Teenage issues are troubles or difficulties that may arise in an adolescents life when living in the modern world. Therapy and counseling are both helpful when dealing with a wide range of teenage issues.
  • - Personal Coaching
    • » Symptoms
    • Goal Setting
    • Career Strategy
    • Relationship Help
    • Personal Improvement
    • Identifying strengths and weaknesses

    » Definition Personal coaching refers to counseling that is directed toward helping a person achieve more in their life.
  • - Life Coaching
    • » Symptoms
    • Personal problems
    • Work problems
    • Relationship problems
    • Health and fitness help
    • Romance and love assistance
    • Learning to control debt
    • Low self-image and self-esteem

    » Definition Life coaching is a process in which people assist others in learning how to set and achieve specific goals in life. There are many areas that life coaching may prove useful in a person's life.
  • - Career Coaching
    • » Symptoms
    • Interviewing
    • Writing a resume
    • Setting career goals
    • Switching careers
    • Entering the workforce

    » Definition Career coaching is help that focuses on assisting a person with work and career related issues. While similar to other forms of counseling, it specifically deals with work related issues.
  • - Business Coaching
    • » Symptoms
    • Nonverbal communication skills
    • Verbal communication skills
    • Public speaking
    • Making the sale or negotiation
    • Managing time
    • Starting a business
    • Improving performance
    • Being a better manager

    » Definition Business coaching is counseling that is directed toward helping a person achieve more in the business world. There are many specific areas that a business coach can help, but business coaching is recommended for those who want to accomplish more in their career.
Prices
Coaching Session
(60 min.)		 75 GBP
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Hayley Daniels-Lake
Hayley Daniels-Lake

Hayley Daniels-Lake

Luton | Age: 27
Coach , Psychotherapist , Counsellor/Therapist
About me

I offer counselling, CBT and coaching.

A session with me will enable you to make the changes you need to lead the kind of life you always dreamed of, free from all the things that are currently holding you back.

Specialties
  • - Communication Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Trouble speaking
    • Trouble understanding
    • Convulsions
    • Repetition of words - stuttering

    » Definition Communication disorders are those that affect speech, language, and hearing. The symptoms vary depending on the particular type of communication disorder, but they generally center around problems communicating. Therapy and counseling are both helpful with the treatment of various communication disorders.
  • - Gay and Lesbian Issues
    • » Symptoms
    • Gay Couple Issues
    • Gay Parenting
    • Confusion
    • Various other issues

    » Definition Gay and lesbian issues are those that affect men and women and deal primarily with issues of sexuality. Therapy can assist a person when dealing with a variety of gay and lesbian issues.
  • - Abuse
    • » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
    • One person completely controlling another
    • Unexplained marks or bruises on the body
    • Repeated injuries that cannot be explained
    • Limping, broken bones, or bruising

    » Definition Abuse is the mistreatment or harm (physical or mental) done to another person over a period of time. Therapy can help a person learn to deal with all the issues that come with long term abuse.
  • - Parenting
    • » Symptoms
    • Depression
    • Feelings of worthlessness
    • Sadness
    • Grief
    • Exhaustion
    • Stress

    » Definition Parenting is the task of supporting and encouraging the emotional, intellectual, physical and social development of a child from infancy until adulthood. This is one of the most difficult tasks a person can face, whether they have a partner helping or not. This is why therapy and coaching are recommended to help with any parenting issues that may arise.
  • - Computer Addiction
    • » Symptoms
    • Excessive amounts of time on the computer
    • Compulsions to be on the computer at all times
    • Lies about time spent on the computer
    • Withdrawal symptoms

    » Definition Computer addiction happens when someone spends an excessive amount of time using the computer. The symptoms include problems with relationships and work because of the amount of time spent on the computer while neglecting other duties or responsibilities. Behavioral therapy can help with recognizing the addiction and doing something about stopping it.
  • - Business Coaching
    • » Symptoms
    • Nonverbal communication skills
    • Verbal communication skills
    • Public speaking
    • Making the sale or negotiation
    • Managing time
    • Starting a business
    • Improving performance
    • Being a better manager

    » Definition Business coaching is counseling that is directed toward helping a person achieve more in the business world. There are many specific areas that a business coach can help, but business coaching is recommended for those who want to accomplish more in their career.
Prices
First session 26 GBP
Normal price (60 min.) 35 GBP
You save 9 GBP
Coaching
(60 min.) 26 GBP
Show Profile Free Pre-Session
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Lena Fenton

Lena Fenton

Cheshunt | Age: 55
Counsellor/Therapist , Psychotherapist
About me

Psychotherapy for Couples and Individuals, specialist in counselling for Childhood Sexual Abuse. Instructor in Life Arising Programme.

Specialties
  • - Grief or Loss
    • » Symptoms
    • Guilt
    • Sadness
    • Shock / Disbelief
    • Anger
    • Fear
    • Fatigue
    • Nausea,
    • Weight fluctuation

    » Definition Grief and loss are two powerful human emotions that cause intense sorrow when a person dies. Psychotherapy can help with all the emotional and physical symptoms that sometimes accompany loss and grief.
  • - Relationship Problems
    • » Symptoms
    • Avoiding intimacy
    • Lack of communication
    • Stress
    • Anxiety
    • Constant arguing
    • Inability to resolve conflicts
    • Fights that last for days, weeks or months

    » Definition Relationship problems are situations and difficulties that have a negative effect on the short and long term success of an intimate relationship. Both therapy and coaching are recommended to help with learning how to better deal with all sorts of relationship problems.
  • - Relationship Counselling
    • » Symptoms
    • Better relationship
    • Guided communication
    • Neutral person to mediate

    » Definition Relationship counseling is used to help a couple learn to deal with many relationship problems that may arise during a long term relationship. While the reasons couples decide to get relationship counseling may differ, when taken seriously, it can help everyone involved.
  • - Abuse
    • » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
    • One person completely controlling another
    • Unexplained marks or bruises on the body
    • Repeated injuries that cannot be explained
    • Limping, broken bones, or bruising

    » Definition Abuse is the mistreatment or harm (physical or mental) done to another person over a period of time. Therapy can help a person learn to deal with all the issues that come with long term abuse.
  • - Marriage Counselling
    • » Symptoms
    • Better relationship
    • Guided communication
    • Presence of a neutral person

    » Definition Marriage counselling is a type of psychotherapy that can assist a couple in having a more fulfilling marriage. For married couple who want to save their marriage, this type of counselling may prove useful for saving the marriage. Others may use marriage counselling before a problem appears in order to better ensure a happy and healthy relationship.
  • - The Opposite Sex
    • » Symptoms
    • Moodiness
    • Insecurity
    • Rebellious behavior
    • Curiosity about sex

    » Definition Sexual insecurity in teens can be described as having confusing feelings about physical attraction to members of the opposite sex and lack of emotional readiness to deal with that attraction.
Prices
First session 45 GBP
Normal price (60 min.) 60 GBP
You save 15 GBP
Counselling/coaching
(60 min.) 45 GBP
Show Profile Free Pre-Session
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