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Premature Ejaculation

When a man has problems delaying ejaculation and orgasm during sexual intercourse, it may point to a problem with the sexual dysfunction known as premature ejaculation. The exact causes of the disorder are not known, but there are serious risks of other emotional problems developing as a result of the poor sexual performance. Relationship problems are also usually present with this problem. Because some men are hesitant to talk about this in person, online therapy for premature ejaculation and other sexual dysfunctions is a good treatment option. Before deciding is this is the best course of action, here are some other facts about premature ejaculation that may help you make your decision.

Causes of Premature Ejaculation  

There may be some physical causes of this sexual disorder, including increased sensitivity around the penis, but for most it is a combination of emotional factors that cause the poor sexual performance. The problem is that when it happens once, it is easy for a man to lose hope and faith in themselves, which can make the problem worse as time progresses. Guilt and other emotions may also play a role in premature ejaculation, as well as anxiety or other  mental disorders.

Symptoms of Premature Ejaculation

The most obvious sign of this sexual dysfunction is the actual premature ejaculation. This is a personal issue, however, that may not be noticed by many people. Other signs of premature ejaculation are distress about the problem and even sexual aversion in some. When the problem cannot be dealt with, some men decide to give up sexual activity in order to not suffer the embarrassment. This is sad because there are many treatment options available for this problem.

Treatment for Premature Ejaculation  

While there are several physical treatments that may help with premature ejaculation, getting good information and guidance about how to deal with the disorder is important. On Mentaline.com you can book online therapy sessions with highly skilled professionals who specialize in this and other sexual disorders here at Mentaline.com. There are tricks you can use to help prolong the time before male orgasm is reached, including pinching the penis, using a cream to desensitize the penis, or even wearing a condom. While these may help with some of the physical symptoms that appear, it is important to also deal with the cause of this sexual disorder as well as all the emotional problems that may come with it. This is why psychotherapy online is can prove powerful.

Definition of Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation is when a male achieves orgasm before they or their partner wishes it to happen. Usually, it occurs within a minute of vaginal penetration. For many people, psychotherapy is a powerful part of any treatment plan to deal with premature ejaculation.

Symptoms of / Reasons for Premature Ejaculation

  • Ejaculation within a minute or less of vaginal penetration
  • Inability to delay ejaculation during sexual intercourse
  • Sexual aversion
  • Distress

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Bennie Naude
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Bennie Naude

London | Age: 43
Counsellor/Therapist
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Sexuality is a core part of the male experience but one that is not often spoken about in public. When your sex life is not working it impacts other areas of your life - your career, relationships and your ability to enjoy life.

Specialties
    » Symptoms
    • Gay Couple Issues
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    • Confusion
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    » Definition Gay and lesbian issues are those that affect men and women and deal primarily with issues of sexuality. Therapy can assist a person when dealing with a variety of gay and lesbian issues.
    » Symptoms
    • Distress caused by lack of sexual interaction
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    • Many sexual partners
    • Long time spent looking at pornography
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    » Definition Excessive sexual drive - once known as nymphomania - is when sexual desires and urges have a large negative impact on a person's life, affecting them personally as well as people around them. Both counseling and therapy are helpful for treatment of excessive sexual drive.
    » Symptoms
    • Ejaculation within a minute or less of vaginal penetration
    • Inability to delay ejaculation during sexual intercourse
    • Sexual aversion
    • Distress

    » Definition Premature ejaculation is when a male achieves orgasm before they or their partner wishes it to happen. Usually, it occurs within a minute of vaginal penetration. For many people, psychotherapy is a powerful part of any treatment plan to deal with premature ejaculation.
    » Symptoms
    • Avoiding intimacy
    • Lack of communication
    • Stress
    • Anxiety
    • Constant arguing
    • Inability to resolve conflicts
    • Fights that last for days, weeks or months

    » Definition Relationship problems are situations and difficulties that have a negative effect on the short and long term success of an intimate relationship. Both therapy and coaching are recommended to help with learning how to better deal with all sorts of relationship problems.
    » Symptoms
    • Delay in orgasm during sexual activity
    • Absence of orgasm following adequate sexual stimulation
    • Interpersonal problems
    • Stress
    • Anxiety

    » Definition Male orgasmic disorder is a delay or absence of orgasm after sexual stimulation that should cause one to occur. While there may be physical causes to this sexual dysfunction, therapy and counseling are recommended as part of an overall treatment program for male orgasmic disorder.
    » Symptoms
    • Hatred of homosexuals
    • Anti-homosexual literature, bumper stickers, etc
    • Spreading hate on the Internet

    » Definition Homophobia is negative thoughts and actions that are directed toward homosexuals. Therapy is very useful in helping deal with the anger and other emotions connected with homophobia.
Prices
First session 60 GBP
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About me

I am an experienced Psychotherapist in Advanced Clinical Training and have a Supervision Diploma.

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    » Symptoms
    • Increasing professional knowledge
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    » Definition Supervision, as used for therapists and life coaches, is the practice of having a supervisor in order to improve the level of service offered by mentoring, coaching, and psychotherapy. While supervision has been around for a while in other fields, it is relatively new in the mental health field.
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    • Pain with no visible and discernible cause
    • Depression and anxiety
    • Reluctance to participate in social events
    • Drug abuse
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    » Definition Chronic pain is any pain that extends beyond the expected healing time, or a persistent pain that is present for more than six months.
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    • Exhaustion
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Ahmet Memhet

Ahmet Memhet

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Hypnotherapist
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It may be that you are at a point where it would be helpful to gain a new insight, have a better hold on things, become more intune and develop deeper harmony with certain aspects of your life.

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    • Loss of energy and enthusiasm
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    » Symptoms
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    » Symptoms
    • Strong desire to be the opposite sex
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    • Distress caused by lack of sexual interaction
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    » Symptoms
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    » Definition Premature ejaculation is when a male achieves orgasm before they or their partner wishes it to happen. Usually, it occurs within a minute of vaginal penetration. For many people, psychotherapy is a powerful part of any treatment plan to deal with premature ejaculation.
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    » Symptoms
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55 GBP
Julie Zikman Toporoski
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Julie Zikman Toporoski

Julie Zikman Toporoski

Toronto
Psychotherapist
About me

I practice an eclectic and holistic approach when assisting people in identifying goals and strategies to achieve these. I am nonjugemental, supportive and empathic when working with people to reach their personal potential.

Specialties
    » Symptoms
    • Strong desire to be the opposite sex
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    » Symptoms
    • Exposure of genitals in public to strangers
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    • Sexual fantasies about giving or receiving pain for sexual gratification
    • Strong sexual urges or compulsions
    • Sexual fantasies, desires, or urges that cause a problem in relationships
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    • Use of inanimate objects for sexual gratification

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    » Symptoms
    • Recurring fantasies of genital exposure to strangers
    • Actual exposure of genitals to strangers multiple times
    • Appearance of other paraphilias symptoms

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    • Intense fantasies revolving around clothing of the opposite sex that last at least six months
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    • Relationship problems
    • Cross-dressing only for sexual pleasure

    » Definition Transvestic fetishism is a male who is sexually aroused by wearing, fondling, or seeing female clothing. Psychotherapy is helpful in the treatment of this disorder.
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    » Symptoms
    • Ejaculation within a minute or less of vaginal penetration
    • Inability to delay ejaculation during sexual intercourse
    • Sexual aversion
    • Distress

    » Definition Premature ejaculation is when a male achieves orgasm before they or their partner wishes it to happen. Usually, it occurs within a minute of vaginal penetration. For many people, psychotherapy is a powerful part of any treatment plan to deal with premature ejaculation.
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