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Losing a Spouse

Michael Skirving

Michael Skirving

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Losing a Spouse

Dealing with the death of a life partner can be an emotional roller coaster for many people, especially if there is children involved. Part of the difficulty lies in the fact that the "other half" that usually helps with situations like a death is not there. Simple tasks can suddenly seem overwhelming. Other physical and mental issues may develop during the funeral or even days or weeks after. Online therapy can help with all the issues that come with losing a spouse. There are some basic tips you can follow, but sometimes talking to a trained therapist makes it a little bit easier.

Tips for Dealing with Losing a Spouse

Here are three very basic tips that can help when dealing with losing a spouse.


  • Prioritize - Making sure needs are met - both physical and emotional - is difficult for some people in even the best circumstances. During the grieving period after losing a spouse, it's important for a person to make sure they remember their needs.
  • Memorialize - Some people don't like to make a big fuss, but sometimes having a special monument erected can make a big difference. This might even be a tree that's planted in memory of the spouse. Making a memorial in some way can make it easier to move on after the last stage of grief.
  • Exercise - Even if a person doesn't feel like it, they should try to stay active. Walking is a great, easy way to get this done while still allowing time to think about the loss. The idea is to make sure depression doesn't become a problem.

There are, of course, more specifics for dealing with losing a spouse. For those that need a little more concrete support and direction, online therapy can provide both.

Therapy for Help With Losing a Spouse

Most people understand that dealing with losing a spouse can be a frightening and emotional draining experience. That's why a lot of people eventually decide to talk to a therapist about their loss. On Mentaline.com you can book online sessions with therapists that specialize in dealing with grief, and they can help with information, advice and support. Losing a spouse can be one of the most difficult things to deal with in life. What makes it especially difficult is that the person who usually helps is gone. Getting therapy for help with losing a spouse does not have to be a hassle.

Definition of Losing a Spouse

Losing a spouse refers to losing a partner in life. No matter the length of the union, this can be a very difficult period for many people. This is why therapy is recommended to help deal with all that comes with losing a spouse.

Symptoms of / Reasons for Losing a Spouse

  • Denial
  • Disbelief
  • Confusion
  • Anger 
  • Humiliation
  • Shock 
  • Sadness
  • Yearning
  • Despair
  • Guilt

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Hayley Daniels-Lake
Hayley Daniels-Lake

Hayley Daniels-Lake

Luton | Age: 27
Coach , Psychotherapist , Counsellor/Therapist
About me

I offer counselling, CBT and coaching.

A session with me will enable you to make the changes you need to lead the kind of life you always dreamed of, free from all the things that are currently holding you back.

Specialties
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    » Symptoms
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    • Confusion
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    • Anxiety
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    • Repeated injuries that cannot be explained
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    » Symptoms
    • Depression
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    • Sadness
    • Grief
    • Exhaustion
    • Stress

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    • Excessive amounts of time on the computer
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    • Public speaking
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    • Managing time
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    • Being a better manager

    » Definition Business coaching is counseling that is directed toward helping a person achieve more in the business world. There are many specific areas that a business coach can help, but business coaching is recommended for those who want to accomplish more in their career.
Prices
First session 26 GBP
Normal price (60 min.) 35 GBP
You save 9 GBP
Coaching
(60 min.)
26 GBP
Ruth Birkebaek
Ruth Birkebaek

Ruth Birkebaek

London | Age: 46
Psychotherapist
About me

I am a Medical Doctor and a Psychotherapist. I use webcam or face to face consultations to successfully treat issues ranging from depression, eating disorders, anxiety, abuse and grief to phobias, addiction and family issues.

Specialties
    » Symptoms
    • Calling in sick to work
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    • Verbal lashing out at co-workers or bosses
    • Insomnia 
    • Depression
    • Anxiety
    • Substance abuse
    • Burnout or breakdown

    » Definition Work stress is an intense emotional strain caused primarily by matter with a person's job. Because having a career - or even just a job - is so important, learning to deal with work stress is important so that it does not interfere with a person's ability to do their job.
    » Symptoms
    • Too much work
    • Too much partying
    • Stress
    • Exhaustion
    • Interpersonal problems

    » Definition Achieving a proper balance between work and life is an important method to achieve happiness. Life coaching can help a person learn techniques and principles that will help with balancing life and work.
    » Symptoms
    • Nervousness
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    » Symptoms
    • Dread of certain objects
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    • Fast heart rate
    • Irrational fears

    » Definition Phobias are an intense and persistent fear (usually irrational) of things, activities, or situations. Symptoms include anxiety, loss of breath, racing heart, as well as other physical and emotional signs. Treatment for phobias with counseling and therapy is recommended.
    » Symptoms
    • Better relationship
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    » Definition Relationship counseling is used to help a couple learn to deal with many relationship problems that may arise during a long term relationship. While the reasons couples decide to get relationship counseling may differ, when taken seriously, it can help everyone involved.
    » Symptoms
    • Depression
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    • Exhaustion
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Prices
Email therapy
(30 min.)
25 GBP
Cecilia Spencer
About me

Qualified, experienced and registered psychotherapist and cousellor offering long and short term therapy to individuals and couples.

Specialties
    » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
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    » Symptoms
    • Nervousness
    • Feeling anxious
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    » Symptoms
    • Chronic depressions
    • Anxiety
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
    • One person completely controlling another

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    » Symptoms
    • Avoiding intimacy
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    • Constant arguing
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    • Fights that last for days, weeks or months

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Denise Richardson
Denise Richardson

Denise Richardson

Darlington
Coach , Counsellor/Therapist
About me

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Specialties
    » Symptoms
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    • Nausea,
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    » Definition Grief and loss are two powerful human emotions that cause intense sorrow when a person dies. Psychotherapy can help with all the emotional and physical symptoms that sometimes accompany loss and grief.
Prices
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Hilda Smith
Hilda Smith

Hilda Smith

Glasgow
Counsellor/Therapist
About me

Online CBT, Counselling, Life Skills Coaching and Management Coaching

Specialties
    » Symptoms
    • Nonverbal communication skills
    • Verbal communication skills
    • Public speaking
    • Making the sale or negotiation
    • Managing time
    • Starting a business
    • Improving performance
    • Being a better manager

    » Definition Business coaching is counseling that is directed toward helping a person achieve more in the business world. There are many specific areas that a business coach can help, but business coaching is recommended for those who want to accomplish more in their career.
    » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Panic attacks
    • Detached feelings
    • Feelings that the world is unreal
    • Trembling or twitching

    » Definition Anxiety disorders are mental illnesses that affect a person's anxiety levels, leaving them unable to function in society. Psychotherapy is very useful in treatment for anxiety disorders.
    » Symptoms
    • Nervousness
    • Feeling anxious
    • Worry

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    • Severe constipation
    • Sore and inflamed throat
    • Loss of tooth enamel
    • Intestinal distress
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    • Guilt
    • Sadness
    • Shock / Disbelief
    • Anger
    • Fear
    • Fatigue
    • Nausea,
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    • Mood changes

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30 Min
(30 min.)
30 GBP
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