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Emotional Abuse

Often referred to as psychological abuse or mental abuse, emotional abuse is perhaps the most insidious kind of abuse. It is the hardest to prove and thought to be the most common kind of abuse. It often comes hand in hand with the other forms of abuse and serves to cause further distress in the life of the target. At its most basic, emotional abuse is someone subjecting or exposing another person to behavior that can be psychologically damaging. It is often a struggle for power and dominance, and can manifest in a variety of areas in life – between spouses, parents, and children, even employers and their employees.

How to Recognize Emotional Abuse

It is hard to pinpoint specific behaviors for emotional abuse. Generally, doctors agree that a pattern of repeated and purposeful acts of psychological aggression can be considered emotional abuse. These acts are often sub-categorized into things like verbal aggression, dominant behaviors, jealous behaviors, and even financially controlling behaviors. Verbal is the most obvious and noticeable to the outside world, while dominant behaviors can be more subtle, ranging from trying to control who a person sees to what they wear or eat. The threat of physical harm to the target or someone they care for is another usually successful means of emotional abuse. A person who wants to be in absolute control of a relationship, whatever kind it may be, is a potential emotional abuser. Emotional abuse is never a single action – it must be repeated.

Dangers of Emotional Abuse

Due to its extended time frame being a key component of emotional abuse, it can often have far reaching and hard to avoid psychological ramifications. Survivors of psychological aggressions often display serious disorders like chronic depressions, anxiety, post traumatic stress disorder, drug addiction and dissociation. They can come to avoid personal interactions and even come to be unable to identify and process their own emotions long term, leading to complications that could severely impact one’s life in the future. It is a sad reality that the damage of one’s sense of self can be easily done and almost impossible to recover.

Dealing with Emotional Abuse

Here at Mentaline.com, we understand that emotional abuse is a very real and hugely negative force in one’s life. Book an online session with one of our trained professionals to get help sorting through the experiences that have brought you to us and focus on getting you and your life back on track. With help from our other online resources, you can find support from people who have gone through similar experience and come out the other side as strong and emotionally healthy.

Definition of Emotional Abuse

Emotional abuse is the repeated and purposeful exposure of one person to psychological acts of aggression by another.

Symptoms of / Reasons for Emotional Abuse

  • Chronic depressions
  • Anxiety
  • Post traumatic stress disorder
  • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
  • Dissociation
  • One person completely controlling another

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Marie Horrey

Marie Horrey

Cambridge | Age: 42
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About me

I pursued Therapy as a career because of my own life experiences and, having had counselling myself in the past, know that it can be a very positive and life changing experience.

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    » Symptoms
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    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
    • One person completely controlling another

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Prices
First session 34 GBP
Normal price (45 min.) 45 GBP
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Life coaching
(45 min.)
34 GBP
Michelle Dodgson
About me

Hello, and welcome, my name is Michelle and I am a psychodynamic counsellor/psychotherapist.

Specialties
    » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
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    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
    • One person completely controlling another
    • Unexplained marks or bruises on the body
    • Repeated injuries that cannot be explained
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    » Symptoms
    • Sudden fear
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    • Racing heart
    • Dizziness
    • Fainting
    • Chills

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    » Symptoms
    • Sleep problems
    • Reliving the traumatic event
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    • Survivor guilt

    » Definition Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is an anxiety disorder that occurs after a life threatening events. Treatment for posttraumatic stress disorder is possible with psychotherapy and counseling.
    » Symptoms
    • Continual bad behavior
    • Tantrums
    • Disruptive behavior
    • Problems with authority figures
    • Inability to pay attention
    • Lack of follow through
    • Organization problems
    • Anti-social behavior
    • Criminal activity
    • Substance abuse
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    » Definition Attention-deficit and disruptive behaviour disorders is a disorder that results in attention problems and continual disruptive behavior. Symptoms include anti-social behavior, substance abuse, inattentiveness, criminal activity, as well as other physical and psychological difficulties. Counseling and guided therapy by those specializing in behavior disorders is recommended for treatment.
    » Symptoms
    • Learning to listen to the inner voice
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    » Symptoms
    • A repeated history of physical injury
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    » Definition Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behaviors by one or both partners in an intimate relationship of some kind.
Prices
Face to Face thearapy session
(60 min.)
30 GBP
Kevin Kappler
Kevin Kappler

Kevin Kappler

Copperopolis, California, USA | Age: 59
Psychologist
About me

They say you should find a young sergon and an old physician. The young guy is up on the latest techniques and the old doctor has seen everything. I have been doing psychotherapy for 24 years.

Specialties
    » Symptoms
    • Excessive dedication to work or other activities
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    • Perfectionism
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    • Trouble allowing others to do things

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    » Symptoms
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    » Definition Intermittent explosive disorder causes repeated episodes of aggressive and extremely violent behavior that is usually out of proportion to a situation. Both therapy and counseling are recommended for treatment of this impulse-control disorder.
    » Symptoms
    • Reacts to criticism with rage, shame, or humiliation
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    • Fantasies about success, power, or perfect love
    • Requires constant attention and admiration
    • Lack of empathy
    • Obsessive self-interest
    • Feelings of self-importance
    • Exaggerates achievements
    • Unreasonable expectations of positive treatment
    • Selfish goals

    » Definition Narcissistic personality disorder causes a person to have an inflated sense of self-worth that can become an extreme preoccupation. Therapy and counseling are recommended for treatment of narcissistic personality disorder.
    » Symptoms
    • Chronic depressions
    • Anxiety
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
    • One person completely controlling another

    » Definition Emotional abuse is the repeated and purposeful exposure of one person to psychological acts of aggression by another.
    » Symptoms
    • Anger
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    » Symptoms
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50 GBP
Hayley Daniels-Lake
Hayley Daniels-Lake

Hayley Daniels-Lake

Luton | Age: 27
Coach , Psychotherapist , Counsellor/Therapist
About me

I offer counselling, CBT and coaching.

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    • Repeated injuries that cannot be explained
    • Limping, broken bones, or bruising

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    » Symptoms
    • Depression
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    • Sadness
    • Grief
    • Exhaustion
    • Stress

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Coaching
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Sarah Truelove
Sarah Truelove

Sarah Truelove

Lincoln
Psychotherapist
About me

I am a UKCP registered therapsist specialising in sexual trauma &domestic abuse but have a wide experience of other areas of therapeutic needs. I work alongside clients to help them understand their issues, and move forward in their lives.

Specialties
    » Symptoms
    • A repeated history of physical injury
    • Fear of a specific person and what they might due
    • Being stalked
    • Being coerced into doing things that you do not wish to by another
    • Depression and post traumatic stress disorder

    » Definition Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behaviors by one or both partners in an intimate relationship of some kind.
    » Symptoms
    • Chronic depressions
    • Anxiety
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
    • One person completely controlling another

    » Definition Emotional abuse is the repeated and purposeful exposure of one person to psychological acts of aggression by another.
    » Symptoms
    • Agitation
    • Irritability
    • Decreased appetite
    • Trouble with concentration
    • Feelings of worthlessness
    • Feelings of guilt
    • Anti-social behavior
    • Loss of energy
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    • Thinking about death or suicide
    • Sleeping problems

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    » Symptoms
    • Unexplained marks or bruises on the body
    • Repeated injuries that cannot be explained
    • Limping, broken bones, or bruising
    • Old scars and a history of injury
    • A reluctance to talk about injuries

    » Definition Physical abuse is the infliction of any kind of bodily harm by one person to another.
    » Symptoms
    • Fear of a specific person or scenario
    • Dramatically increased feeling of guilt or shame
    • Low self-esteem
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • Borderline personality disorder
    • Dissociative Identity Disorder

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    » Symptoms
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    • Severe constipation
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    • Intestinal distress
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    • Depression
    • Anxiety

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Prices
Telephone Session
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48 GBP
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