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Borderline Personality Disorder

For people with borderline personality disorder, the world is often seen as black or white, good or bad, with very little in between the two extremes. People with the disorder usually are very impulsive, which can lead to them making terrible life decisions.  As you might imagine, this type of thinking can cause for volatile and chaotic relationships. Emotional instability can cause quite a few different symptoms to appear, including moods that change drastically and frequently and impulsive behavior. People with this disorder usually have a very poor self-image. Because of the nature of this personality disorder, few people seek treatment on their own. This is one of the reasons we offer online therapy for borderline personality disorder here at Mentaline.com.

Causes of Borderline Personality Disorder 

The exact circumstances may vary from person to person, but in general past sexual abuse, abandonment issues, and a bad family life are all thought to be partially responsible for the appearance of borderline personality disorder in adulthood. Abnormalities in the structure or chemistry of the brain may also play a part in this disorder appearing. For many, it is a combination of all or most of these factors. No matter the cause, there are various symptoms that may appear in people with borderline personality disorder. It is important to watch for them so that the dangers of this disorder can be avoided.

Symptoms and Dangers of Borderline Personality Disorder 

Someone who impulsively jumps from relationship to relationship or spends money impulsively may have borderline personality disorder. Other emotional problems like inappropriate anger, boredom, or feelings of emptiness may be present as well. For others, physical symptoms may appear, including self-harm. One of the other dangers of this disorder is the likelihood of a person having problems with substance abuse or other high risk activities or lifestyles. People with borderline personality disorder also have a fear or intense dislike of being alone. All of these can lead to other emotional problems if left untreated.

Treatment for Borderline Personality Disorder 

The exact treatment methods for borderline personality disorder are going to vary from person to person, but the trained therapists here at Mentaline.com understand that. This is because they specialize in this and other personality disorders. Psychotherapy for borderline personality disorder has been used for a while, but here at Mentaline.com we add an online element that makes getting treatment easier than ever before.

Definition of Borderline Personality Disorder

Borderline personality disorder causes a person to act compulsively and have difficulties with relationships and maintaining a stable mood. Psychotherapy is recommended for treatment of borderline personality disorder.

Symptoms of / Reasons for Borderline Personality Disorder

  • Feelings of emptiness
  • Boredom
  • Inappropriate anger
  • Impulsiveness with money
  • Substance abuse
  • Hatred of being alone
  • Repeated self-injury

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Phoebe Swan
Phoebe Swan

Phoebe Swan

Counsellor/Therapist
About me

I am a fully qualified counsellor. I provide counselling in fluent English and Chinese Mandarin. I offer Local face-to-face counselling in Bristol, United Kingdom, and Online face-to-face counselling by Skype webcam or MSN webcam.

Specialties
  • - Separation
    • » Symptoms
    • Anger
    • Guilt
    • Resentment

    » Definition Separation is typically a step taken before a divorce or a break-up that consists of partners living separately and not having a close, intimate relationship. Relationship therapy can help both partners deal with all the issues that come with separation.
  • - Relationship Problems
    • » Symptoms
    • Avoiding intimacy
    • Lack of communication
    • Stress
    • Anxiety
    • Constant arguing
    • Inability to resolve conflicts
    • Fights that last for days, weeks or months

    » Definition Relationship problems are situations and difficulties that have a negative effect on the short and long term success of an intimate relationship. Both therapy and coaching are recommended to help with learning how to better deal with all sorts of relationship problems.
  • - Bullying
    • » Symptoms
    • Anxiety, depression, and loneliness
    • Repressed anger
    • Self-esteem issues
    • Bruising or other signs of physical contact

    » Definition Bullying is the struggle for power, often between children, and the resultant abuse of that power. It can take both direct (physical) and indirect (mental or emotional) forms.
  • - Low Self-Esteem
    • » Symptoms
    • Low self-confidence
    • Low self-worth
    • Depression
    • Anxiety
    • Withdrawal

    » Definition A person with a low self-esteem may be unable to lead a full and healthy life because of their problems with self-image and self-worth. Whatever the cause of the self-esteem issues, a life coach can help by providing practical tips and advice on how to overcome low self-esteem.
  • - Depressive Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Feeling sad everyday for more than two weeks
    • Apathy and a lack of interest in normal activities

    » Definition Depressive disorders are mental illnesses that affect the chemistry of the brain, causing people to have intense, long periods of sadness that leaves them unable to function in society. Symptoms of depressive disorders include being sad every day for more than 2 weeks or being so sad that there are suicidal thoughts. Treatment with psychotherapy can help with a variety of depressive disorders.
  • - Childhood Trauma
    • » Symptoms
    • Slow development
    • Fatigue
    • Insomnia
    • Nightmares
    • Self-blame
    • Guilt
    • Anxiety
    • Fear

    » Definition Childhood trauma occurs generally in the first six years of a child's life. Although young, children should be given treatment for trauma that includes both therapy and counseling.
Prices
Online Face-to-Face Counselling session
(60 min.)		 30 GBP
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Hayley Daniels-Lake
Hayley Daniels-Lake

Hayley Daniels-Lake

Luton | Age: 27
Coach , Psychotherapist , Counsellor/Therapist
About me

I offer counselling, CBT and coaching.

A session with me will enable you to make the changes you need to lead the kind of life you always dreamed of, free from all the things that are currently holding you back.

Specialties
  • - Communication Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Trouble speaking
    • Trouble understanding
    • Convulsions
    • Repetition of words - stuttering

    » Definition Communication disorders are those that affect speech, language, and hearing. The symptoms vary depending on the particular type of communication disorder, but they generally center around problems communicating. Therapy and counseling are both helpful with the treatment of various communication disorders.
  • - Gay and Lesbian Issues
    • » Symptoms
    • Gay Couple Issues
    • Gay Parenting
    • Confusion
    • Various other issues

    » Definition Gay and lesbian issues are those that affect men and women and deal primarily with issues of sexuality. Therapy can assist a person when dealing with a variety of gay and lesbian issues.
  • - Abuse
    • » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
    • One person completely controlling another
    • Unexplained marks or bruises on the body
    • Repeated injuries that cannot be explained
    • Limping, broken bones, or bruising

    » Definition Abuse is the mistreatment or harm (physical or mental) done to another person over a period of time. Therapy can help a person learn to deal with all the issues that come with long term abuse.
  • - Parenting
    • » Symptoms
    • Depression
    • Feelings of worthlessness
    • Sadness
    • Grief
    • Exhaustion
    • Stress

    » Definition Parenting is the task of supporting and encouraging the emotional, intellectual, physical and social development of a child from infancy until adulthood. This is one of the most difficult tasks a person can face, whether they have a partner helping or not. This is why therapy and coaching are recommended to help with any parenting issues that may arise.
  • - Computer Addiction
    • » Symptoms
    • Excessive amounts of time on the computer
    • Compulsions to be on the computer at all times
    • Lies about time spent on the computer
    • Withdrawal symptoms

    » Definition Computer addiction happens when someone spends an excessive amount of time using the computer. The symptoms include problems with relationships and work because of the amount of time spent on the computer while neglecting other duties or responsibilities. Behavioral therapy can help with recognizing the addiction and doing something about stopping it.
  • - Business Coaching
    • » Symptoms
    • Nonverbal communication skills
    • Verbal communication skills
    • Public speaking
    • Making the sale or negotiation
    • Managing time
    • Starting a business
    • Improving performance
    • Being a better manager

    » Definition Business coaching is counseling that is directed toward helping a person achieve more in the business world. There are many specific areas that a business coach can help, but business coaching is recommended for those who want to accomplish more in their career.
Prices
First session 26 GBP
Normal price (60 min.) 35 GBP
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Alexandra (Alex) Hawkins
Alexandra (Alex) Hawkins

Alexandra (Alex) Hawkins

Meriden | Age: 52
Coach , Counsellor/Therapist
About me

I have a non judgmental approach to your problem. Very broadminded with years of experience. Take free 15 minutes to see if I can help you. I am well aware that we are all different and your counselling will be tailored for you alone.

Specialties
  • - Shopping Addiction
    • » Symptoms Inability to stick to a budget Compulsive shopping Lies Relationship problems
    » Definition Known as oniomania or compulsive shopping, a shopping addiction is an uncontrollable urge to purchase items, even if they are needed. The symptoms of shopping addictions can manifest in many ways, but revolve primarily around financial and relationship problems. Treatment for shopping addictions like therapy and counseling have been shown to be very helpful in overcoming the addiction.
  • - Terminal Illness
    • » Symptoms
    • Feeling isolated and misunderstood
    • Feelings of intense rage and injustice
    • Dealing with overwhelming grief
    • Feeling ill-equipped to deal with the situation
    • Denying the reality of the situation
    • Grief
    • Anger
    • Denial
    • Exhaustion, anxiety, or intense fears
    • Stress when dealing with health issues
    • Depression

    » Definition A terminal illness is a disease or sickness that has no known cure and that will result in death. Therapy and counseling for coping with the emotional aspects of terminal illness is recommended.
  • - Relationship Counselling
    • » Symptoms
    • Better relationship
    • Guided communication
    • Neutral person to mediate

    » Definition Relationship counseling is used to help a couple learn to deal with many relationship problems that may arise during a long term relationship. While the reasons couples decide to get relationship counseling may differ, when taken seriously, it can help everyone involved.
  • - Grief or Loss
    • » Symptoms
    • Guilt
    • Sadness
    • Shock / Disbelief
    • Anger
    • Fear
    • Fatigue
    • Nausea,
    • Weight fluctuation

    » Definition Grief and loss are two powerful human emotions that cause intense sorrow when a person dies. Psychotherapy can help with all the emotional and physical symptoms that sometimes accompany loss and grief.
  • - Divorce / Break-up
    • » Symptoms
    • Depression
    • Anger
    • Exhaustion
    • Guilt

    » Definition A divorce or break-up happens when two people decide to call it quits and end a relationship due to their differences. Learning to deal with the emotional pain of a divorce - especially if there are children involved - can be made easier with the help of the proper therapy and coaching.
  • - Homophobia
    • » Symptoms
    • Hatred of homosexuals
    • Anti-homosexual literature, bumper stickers, etc
    • Spreading hate on the Internet

    » Definition Homophobia is negative thoughts and actions that are directed toward homosexuals. Therapy is very useful in helping deal with the anger and other emotions connected with homophobia.
Prices
First session 34 GBP
Normal price (60 min.) 45 GBP
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Counselling / Advice
(60 min.) 34 GBP
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Joanna Jamieson
Joanna Jamieson

Joanna Jamieson

Cheshire | Age: 56
Counsellor/Therapist
About me

Hi, I'm Jo
Talking about your problems can be difficult, even with people who love and care about you. sometimes you dont know where to turn. I am here to support you and to respond to you honestly, sensitively and without judgment.

Specialties
  • - Gay and Lesbian Issues
    • » Symptoms
    • Gay Couple Issues
    • Gay Parenting
    • Confusion
    • Various other issues

    » Definition Gay and lesbian issues are those that affect men and women and deal primarily with issues of sexuality. Therapy can assist a person when dealing with a variety of gay and lesbian issues.
  • - Abuse
    • » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
    • One person completely controlling another
    • Unexplained marks or bruises on the body
    • Repeated injuries that cannot be explained
    • Limping, broken bones, or bruising

    » Definition Abuse is the mistreatment or harm (physical or mental) done to another person over a period of time. Therapy can help a person learn to deal with all the issues that come with long term abuse.
  • - Anxiety
    • » Symptoms
    • Nervousness
    • Feeling anxious
    • Worry

    » Definition Anxiety is a normal human emotion that allows people to deal with stressful situations. It could also be described as nervousness. For some people, existing mental problems can make anxiety levels extreme and difficult to deal with. In any case, psychotherapy is recommended for help with anxiety.
  • - Relationship Problems
    • » Symptoms
    • Avoiding intimacy
    • Lack of communication
    • Stress
    • Anxiety
    • Constant arguing
    • Inability to resolve conflicts
    • Fights that last for days, weeks or months

    » Definition Relationship problems are situations and difficulties that have a negative effect on the short and long term success of an intimate relationship. Both therapy and coaching are recommended to help with learning how to better deal with all sorts of relationship problems.
  • - Anxiety Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Panic attacks
    • Detached feelings
    • Feelings that the world is unreal
    • Trembling or twitching

    » Definition Anxiety disorders are mental illnesses that affect a person's anxiety levels, leaving them unable to function in society. Psychotherapy is very useful in treatment for anxiety disorders.
  • - Borderline Personality Disorder
    • » Symptoms
    • Feelings of emptiness
    • Boredom
    • Inappropriate anger
    • Impulsiveness with money
    • Substance abuse
    • Hatred of being alone
    • Repeated self-injury

    » Definition Borderline personality disorder causes a person to act compulsively and have difficulties with relationships and maintaining a stable mood. Psychotherapy is recommended for treatment of borderline personality disorder.
Prices
Live messaging
(60 min.)		 28 GBP
One2One rating: 5
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Tony Novissimo
Tony Novissimo

Tony Novissimo

Richmond | Age: 71
Psychotherapist
About me

My name is Tony Novissimo and I am a qualified psychotherapist and a full , accredited member of the BACP. I have been a practicing counsellor in the South West London area for the past eight years.

Specialties
  • - Personality Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Feelings of emptiness
    • Avoidance of personal responsibility
    • Constantly blaming failure on others
    • Lack of guilt or remorse
    • Fights, lies, and steals often
    • Self-injury
    • Anti-social behavior
    • Self-centeredness

    » Definition Personality disorders cause chronic, negative behavior patterns that can result in serious problems with relationships and work. Psychotherapy is recommended for treatment of personality disorders.
  • - Anxiety Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Panic attacks
    • Detached feelings
    • Feelings that the world is unreal
    • Trembling or twitching

    » Definition Anxiety disorders are mental illnesses that affect a person's anxiety levels, leaving them unable to function in society. Psychotherapy is very useful in treatment for anxiety disorders.
  • - Binge Eating Disorder
    • » Symptoms
    • Lack of self-control when it comes to food
    • Inability to stop eating large amounts of food
    • Avoidance of healthy food
    • Embarrassment about either weight or food eating habits

    » Definition Binge eating disorder refers to a person that is unable to control the amount of food they consume in a single setting, often eating due to emotions rather than because they are hungry. It is usually caused by a combination of genetics and emotional problems. While nothing can be done about the genetics side of the problem, a combination of counseling and therapy has been shown to be very successful in helping people get their binge eating under control.
  • - Cognitive Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Rapid changes in mental states
    • Poor short term memory
    • Disorganized thinking
    • Mental problems - language, memory, perception
    • Inability to recognize language
    • Learning difficulties
    • Memory and recall problems
    • Trouble with critical thinking
    • Reliance on notes and calendars

    » Definition Cognitive disorders cause a significant impairment of cognition, memory or both, either for short or long periods of time depending on the exact type of cognitive disorder. Symptoms will vary, but they will center around cognitive and memory impairments and everything associated with them. Therapy and counseling are recommended for the treatment of cognitive disorders.
  • - Mood Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Sleep problems
    • Hopelessness
    • Low self-esteem
    • Bad eating habits
    • Fatigue

    » Definition Mood disorders are mental illnesses that center around chemical imbalances in the brain that cause emotional problems with depression, mania, or a combination of both. Symptoms of mood disorders include feelings of hopelessness, sleep troubles and other problems. Treatment with psychotherapy is helpful for dealing with a variety of mood disorders.
  • - Depression
    • » Symptoms
    • Concentration problems
    • Bad judgment or trouble making decisions
    • Fatigue and a general decrease of energy
    • Feelings of guilt and/or worthlessness
    • Extreme pessimism
    • Insomnia
    • Excessive sleeping
    • Irritability
    • Loss of interest in sex
    • Loss of interest in life
    • Eating problems
    • Physical pains
    • Suicidal thoughts
    • Suicide attempts

    » Definition Depression is defined as a mental state that causes extreme sadness, pessimism, and a loss of interest in life. Symptoms of depression include sleep problems, uncontrollable crying, loss of interest in life, as well as other physical and mental signs. Counseling and therapy are two recommended ways to get help with depression. While depression is a normal human state of mind, when it lasts for a long time or is very intense, it may be a sign of bigger problems.
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Counselling
(60 min.)		 50 GBP
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