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Susan Boggon Smith

Susan Boggon Smith

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Betrayal

While betrayal is a common theme with infidelity, there are other ways that trust may be broken in a relationship. These other types of betrayal can be just as damaging if the relationship problems aren't taken seriously. Here at Mentaline.com, we have online relationship counseling that can help couples - or individuals - deal with all the emotional trauma that comes with betrayal. Learning to trust a partner after being betrayed is a very difficult task. Not everybody will be successful in saving their relationship, but counseling can help improve the chances that betrayal doesn't ruin a relationship that may be good in other ways if looked at a little differently. Before looking at how online therapy can help, here is a closer look at some of the possible causes of betrayal.

Causes of Betrayal

Why humans do what they sometimes do is still one of the great human mysteries, but more and more is being learned about betrayal and how it affects relationships. Today, with proper relationship counseling and coaching, betrayal of trust does not have to mean the end of an otherwise healthy relationship. While the dynamics of the relationship may never be the same, dealing with the issues that caused the betrayal may be a way for a couple to mend, heal, and move on. While the exact reasons that cause people to betray others may not be known exactly, there are quite a few things that can be done to help save a relationship that is suffering from this problem.

Getting Help for Dealing with Betrayal 

Here at Mentaline.com, trained therapists can help both the betrayer and the person betrayed. Even if there is no chance of saving the relationship after the trust is broken, relationship counseling and therapy can help an individual deal with all the issues that come with betrayal. Both the person who betrayed and lost the love of their life and the person who was betrayed and had to move on can receive assistance. Some couples may never be able to mend the fences after such a traumatic experience, there are some who learn to work past the hurt and rebuild trust slowly over time. The therapists on Mentaline.com can give guidance whether a person wants to move on in a new direction or try to fix their relationship.

Definition of Betrayal

Betrayal is the breaking of trust in a relationship. The exact type of betrayal may differ from couple to couple, but the resulting lack of trust is an issue that relationships affected by betrayal have to face. This is why therapy and relationship coaching are recommended for dealing with betrayal in a relationship.

Symptoms of / Reasons for Betrayal

  • Depression
  • Guilt
  • Avoidance
  • Lies

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Claudia Martins
Claudia Martins

Claudia Martins

London | Age: 35
Psychologist , Counsellor/Therapist , Psychotherapist
About me

I am available for e-mail counseling anytime (including weekends) and will answer your email within 12 to 24 hours. I'm also available to talk on the phone or Skype, just check my calendar to book your appointment. ;-)

Specialties
  • - Somatization Disorder
    • » Symptoms
    • Physical pain in one or more parts of the body
    • Long history of being sick even though a physical cause is never found
    • Chronic complaints about pain

    » Definition Somatization disorder is the continual complaining about physical symptoms when no medical condition exists to cause the symptoms, meaning they are entirely psychological in nature. A combination of therapy and counseling are helpful when dealing with somatization disorder.
  • - Coaching and Therapy Supervision
    • » Symptoms
    • Increasing professional knowledge
    • Overseeing professional development
    • Learning to listen to feedback from clients or patients and respond to it
    • Practicing effective communication with peers

    » Definition Supervision, as used for therapists and life coaches, is the practice of having a supervisor in order to improve the level of service offered by mentoring, coaching, and psychotherapy. While supervision has been around for a while in other fields, it is relatively new in the mental health field.
  • - Emotional Abuse
    • » Symptoms
    • Chronic depressions
    • Anxiety
    • Post traumatic stress disorder
    • A severe reaction to being chastised or scolded
    • Dissociation
    • One person completely controlling another

    » Definition Emotional abuse is the repeated and purposeful exposure of one person to psychological acts of aggression by another.
  • - Relationship Problems
    • » Symptoms
    • Avoiding intimacy
    • Lack of communication
    • Stress
    • Anxiety
    • Constant arguing
    • Inability to resolve conflicts
    • Fights that last for days, weeks or months

    » Definition Relationship problems are situations and difficulties that have a negative effect on the short and long term success of an intimate relationship. Both therapy and coaching are recommended to help with learning how to better deal with all sorts of relationship problems.
  • - Anxiety Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Panic attacks
    • Detached feelings
    • Feelings that the world is unreal
    • Trembling or twitching

    » Definition Anxiety disorders are mental illnesses that affect a person's anxiety levels, leaving them unable to function in society. Psychotherapy is very useful in treatment for anxiety disorders.
  • - Depressive Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Feeling sad everyday for more than two weeks
    • Apathy and a lack of interest in normal activities

    » Definition Depressive disorders are mental illnesses that affect the chemistry of the brain, causing people to have intense, long periods of sadness that leaves them unable to function in society. Symptoms of depressive disorders include being sad every day for more than 2 weeks or being so sad that there are suicidal thoughts. Treatment with psychotherapy can help with a variety of depressive disorders.
Prices
First session 34 GBP
Normal price (60 min.) 45 GBP
You save 11 GBP
Counseling via Skype or phone
(60 min.) 34 GBP
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Alan Coupar
Alan Coupar

Alan Coupar

Edinburgh
Psychologist
About me

As a Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT), I am experienced in the full range of adult mental health issues. This includes acute psychiatric to chronic problems, such as anxiety & depression.

Specialties
  • - Anxiety Disorders
    • » Symptoms
    • Anxiety
    • Panic attacks
    • Detached feelings
    • Feelings that the world is unreal
    • Trembling or twitching

    » Definition Anxiety disorders are mental illnesses that affect a person's anxiety levels, leaving them unable to function in society. Psychotherapy is very useful in treatment for anxiety disorders.
  • - Depression
    • » Symptoms
    • Concentration problems
    • Bad judgment or trouble making decisions
    • Fatigue and a general decrease of energy
    • Feelings of guilt and/or worthlessness
    • Extreme pessimism
    • Insomnia
    • Excessive sleeping
    • Irritability
    • Loss of interest in sex
    • Loss of interest in life
    • Eating problems
    • Physical pains
    • Suicidal thoughts
    • Suicide attempts

    » Definition Depression is defined as a mental state that causes extreme sadness, pessimism, and a loss of interest in life. Symptoms of depression include sleep problems, uncontrollable crying, loss of interest in life, as well as other physical and mental signs. Counseling and therapy are two recommended ways to get help with depression. While depression is a normal human state of mind, when it lasts for a long time or is very intense, it may be a sign of bigger problems.
  • - Stress
    • » Symptoms
    • Sleep disturbances
    • Muscle tension
    • Headaches
    • Stomach trouble
    • Fatigue
    • Nervousness
    • Anxiety
    • Overeating
    • Loss of energy and enthusiasm
    • Mood changes

    » Definition Stress is an emotional strain on the mind that is caused by both physical and emotional problems in life. While everyone deals with stress in slightly different ways, treatment with psychotherapy is recommended.
  • - Relationship Problems
    • » Symptoms
    • Avoiding intimacy
    • Lack of communication
    • Stress
    • Anxiety
    • Constant arguing
    • Inability to resolve conflicts
    • Fights that last for days, weeks or months

    » Definition Relationship problems are situations and difficulties that have a negative effect on the short and long term success of an intimate relationship. Both therapy and coaching are recommended to help with learning how to better deal with all sorts of relationship problems.
  • - Relationship Counselling
    • » Symptoms
    • Better relationship
    • Guided communication
    • Neutral person to mediate

    » Definition Relationship counseling is used to help a couple learn to deal with many relationship problems that may arise during a long term relationship. While the reasons couples decide to get relationship counseling may differ, when taken seriously, it can help everyone involved.
Prices
First session 83 GBP
Normal price (60 min.) 110 GBP
You save 28 GBP
CBT Session
(60 min.) 83 GBP
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Heleena Yates
Heleena Yates

Heleena Yates

Banbury
Counsellor/Therapist , Psychotherapist
About me

* Does life feel stressful?
* Is life getting on top of you?
* Do you need space to explore 'how you feel'?
* To explore thoughts and worries in a calm place?
* To discover what really makes you tick as a person?

Specialties
  • - Trauma
    • » Symptoms
    • Inability to talk
    • Blackout - memory loss
    • Acting automatically
    • Sleeplessness
    • Irritability
    • Anger
    • Limiting of life choices
    • Hopelessness

    » Definition Trauma is damage to a person's psyche (soul, mind) as a result of a traumatic event. There are various causes of trauma, but both therapy and counseling are recommended for treatment of all trauma related problems.
  • - Abuse Trauma
    • » Symptoms
    • Panic attacks
    • Trouble sleeping
    • Fearfulness
    • Irregular eating - too much or too little
    • Depression
    • Blocking of memories

    » Definition Abuse trauma occurs after one or multiple episodes of emotional, physical or sexual abuse. Psychotherapy is recommended for treatment of abuse trauma.
  • - Violence Trauma
    • » Symptoms
    • Withdrawal
    • Sleep troubles
    • Anxiety
    • Fear
    • Withdrawal from others
    • Feeling disconnected - numb
    • Panic attacks

    » Definition Violence trauma is caused by witnessing or being a victim of an extremely violent event. Psychotherapy is recommended for treatment of trauma caused by violence.
  • - Relationship Problems
    • » Symptoms
    • Avoiding intimacy
    • Lack of communication
    • Stress
    • Anxiety
    • Constant arguing
    • Inability to resolve conflicts
    • Fights that last for days, weeks or months

    » Definition Relationship problems are situations and difficulties that have a negative effect on the short and long term success of an intimate relationship. Both therapy and coaching are recommended to help with learning how to better deal with all sorts of relationship problems.
  • - Power Struggles
    • » Symptoms
    • Anger
    • Fighting
    • Lack of effective communication
    • Avoidance of intimacy
    • Arguing

    » Definition Power struggles refer to people in a relationship fighting about who is in control, with both trying to dominate the relationship in one way or another. In many cases, relationship therapy and coaching can be very beneficial for couples dealing with all the negatives that come with power struggles.
  • - Infidelity
    • » Symptoms
    • Being secretive
    • Working late
    • Multiple email accounts
    • Lies

    » Definition When one person in a relationship has a sexual relationship with another person or otherwise breaks agreed and known boundaries in a relationship, it is known as infidelity. Once the infidelity is known about by both parties, it can have many serious consequences on a relationship. Because of this, relationship coaching and therapy are recommended.
Prices
First session 34 GBP
Normal price (60 min.) 45 GBP
You save 11 GBP
Psychotherapy session
(60 min.) 34 GBP
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Carole Turner
Carole Turner

Carole Turner

Alicante
Psychotherapist
About me

Carole Turner, Psychotherapist & Counsellor, providing help and support to clients in Javea, Calpe, Jalon Valley, Denia, Moraira and Altea on the Costa Blanca in Spain.

Specialties
  • - Relationship Problems
    • » Symptoms
    • Avoiding intimacy
    • Lack of communication
    • Stress
    • Anxiety
    • Constant arguing
    • Inability to resolve conflicts
    • Fights that last for days, weeks or months

    » Definition Relationship problems are situations and difficulties that have a negative effect on the short and long term success of an intimate relationship. Both therapy and coaching are recommended to help with learning how to better deal with all sorts of relationship problems.
  • - Anxiety
    • » Symptoms
    • Nervousness
    • Feeling anxious
    • Worry

    » Definition Anxiety is a normal human emotion that allows people to deal with stressful situations. It could also be described as nervousness. For some people, existing mental problems can make anxiety levels extreme and difficult to deal with. In any case, psychotherapy is recommended for help with anxiety.
  • - Phobias
    • » Symptoms
    • Dread of certain objects
    • Extreme fear of certain situations
    • Shortness of breath
    • Fast heart rate
    • Irrational fears

    » Definition Phobias are an intense and persistent fear (usually irrational) of things, activities, or situations. Symptoms include anxiety, loss of breath, racing heart, as well as other physical and emotional signs. Treatment for phobias with counseling and therapy is recommended.
  • - Depression
    • » Symptoms
    • Concentration problems
    • Bad judgment or trouble making decisions
    • Fatigue and a general decrease of energy
    • Feelings of guilt and/or worthlessness
    • Extreme pessimism
    • Insomnia
    • Excessive sleeping
    • Irritability
    • Loss of interest in sex
    • Loss of interest in life
    • Eating problems
    • Physical pains
    • Suicidal thoughts
    • Suicide attempts

    » Definition Depression is defined as a mental state that causes extreme sadness, pessimism, and a loss of interest in life. Symptoms of depression include sleep problems, uncontrollable crying, loss of interest in life, as well as other physical and mental signs. Counseling and therapy are two recommended ways to get help with depression. While depression is a normal human state of mind, when it lasts for a long time or is very intense, it may be a sign of bigger problems.
  • - Stress
    • » Symptoms
    • Sleep disturbances
    • Muscle tension
    • Headaches
    • Stomach trouble
    • Fatigue
    • Nervousness
    • Anxiety
    • Overeating
    • Loss of energy and enthusiasm
    • Mood changes

    » Definition Stress is an emotional strain on the mind that is caused by both physical and emotional problems in life. While everyone deals with stress in slightly different ways, treatment with psychotherapy is recommended.
  • - Low Self-Esteem
    • » Symptoms
    • Low self-confidence
    • Low self-worth
    • Depression
    • Anxiety
    • Withdrawal

    » Definition A person with a low self-esteem may be unable to lead a full and healthy life because of their problems with self-image and self-worth. Whatever the cause of the self-esteem issues, a life coach can help by providing practical tips and advice on how to overcome low self-esteem.
Prices
First session 45 GBP
Normal price (60 min.) 60 GBP
You save 15 GBP
Counselling session
(60 min.) 45 GBP
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Carole Sanderson
Carole Sanderson

Carole Sanderson

Cheshire
Counsellor/Therapist
About me

I have over twenty years experience of helping and counselling people. Most of my training and experience has been with Relate and more recently in private practice. I work with individuals, couples, families and young people.

Specialties
  • - Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
    • » Symptoms
    • Sleep problems
    • Reliving the traumatic event
    • Detachment
    • Survivor guilt

    » Definition Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is an anxiety disorder that occurs after a life threatening events. Treatment for posttraumatic stress disorder is possible with psychotherapy and counseling.
  • - Trauma
    • » Symptoms
    • Inability to talk
    • Blackout - memory loss
    • Acting automatically
    • Sleeplessness
    • Irritability
    • Anger
    • Limiting of life choices
    • Hopelessness

    » Definition Trauma is damage to a person's psyche (soul, mind) as a result of a traumatic event. There are various causes of trauma, but both therapy and counseling are recommended for treatment of all trauma related problems.
  • - Relationship Problems
    • » Symptoms
    • Avoiding intimacy
    • Lack of communication
    • Stress
    • Anxiety
    • Constant arguing
    • Inability to resolve conflicts
    • Fights that last for days, weeks or months

    » Definition Relationship problems are situations and difficulties that have a negative effect on the short and long term success of an intimate relationship. Both therapy and coaching are recommended to help with learning how to better deal with all sorts of relationship problems.
  • - Relationship Counselling
    • » Symptoms
    • Better relationship
    • Guided communication
    • Neutral person to mediate

    » Definition Relationship counseling is used to help a couple learn to deal with many relationship problems that may arise during a long term relationship. While the reasons couples decide to get relationship counseling may differ, when taken seriously, it can help everyone involved.
Prices
First session 20 GBP
Normal price (60 min.) 40 GBP
You save 20 GBP
Face to Face Counselling
(60 min.) 20 GBP
Show Profile Free Pre-Session
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